ShaunaHow to get over someone you were never actually withAll bets are off. It’s over. It never really started, but, you know… It was a non-starter.Oct 24, 201828Oct 24, 201828
ShaunaOne Man, One Collar, One Metric Ton of LessonsI didn’t want one. I knew they represented something. You thought they looked hot. Even to you who knew nothing of the significance…Nov 2, 2018Nov 2, 2018
ShaunaWhat’s this Fetlife thing People are Banging on About?John Baku, legend of a man that he is (ie the man who invented Fetlife), set up the website to find partners who shared his kinky…Nov 7, 2018Nov 7, 2018
ShaunaWhy I Write About Sex, Kink and the Details That Make it GreatIf asked, would you admit you own a vibrator, like being strapped to the bed or forcefully pushed around in the bedroom? How about the…Nov 13, 2018Nov 13, 2018
ShaunaThe Fear of Starting to Like SomeoneI love a good date. No, I’ll go one further — I enjoy dating even when it’s brutally crap.Nov 20, 2018Nov 20, 2018
ShaunaCheating is Not Black & WhiteWhen the news hits the media, there’s a good person, a bad person and a bitch. It’s black and white. The cheater is a dick, the victim is…Nov 24, 20181Nov 24, 20181
ShaunaGroggy Fucks, Lust and Carnal NeedA silent, evocative, cathartic filling of needs. Two people who want each other so bad that they don’t even need to be fully awake to see…Jan 3, 2019Jan 3, 2019
ShaunaThe Size of Your Dick is IrrelevantThick, chunky, slim or small. It’s not what you got that gets me going.Jan 4, 2019Jan 4, 2019
ShaunaHow Many People You’ve Slept With is No Ones BusinessWhen you add up your one-night stands, casual encounters, dreaded mistakes, actual partners and the very nearly relationship material, the…Jun 17, 2020Jun 17, 2020
InWriters’ BlokkebyShaunaSave Kissing for the Second DateEven good dates can be ruined by built-in expectations. So, remove them.Jan 20, 2021Jan 20, 2021
InWriters’ BlokkebyShaunaOde to a Broken VibratorWhen my first big love ended I couldn’t masturbate. Scrap that, I wouldn’t. I felt dirty. Disgraced. My horniness a sign of my desperation.Nov 27, 20212Nov 27, 20212
InWriters’ BlokkebyShaunaHow to dominate dirty talking in the bedroomSometimes dirty talk seems more like awkward talk. Uncomfortably staring at your partner like a deer in headlights, tongue like a lead…Nov 30, 2021Nov 30, 2021
